Born in New Jersey to Dutch and Italian parents, Ivan Sergei Gaudio graduated from Hawthorne High School in 1989, where he played football before pursuing acting. He broke onto the screen in John Woo’s 1996 film Once a Thief and its 1997 TV adaptation, then appeared in the sitcom Jack & Jill (1999-2001) with Amanda Peet, the short-lived Wednesday 9:30 (2002), and as Dr. Peter Winslow on Crossing J…